Day at the beach

Anyone that has been to Virginia Beach knows there aren't many big waves here. We still think it's funny they actually have the East Coast surfing championships here. But....Hurricane Francis was off shore and brought us some awesome waves! Only a few hours of being at the beach though, we were told we had to get out....the rip currents were just too strong and the lifeguards were having to make too many rescues.

Dennis taking the body board out to catch some waves.

testing the waters

Madi and I

Dad!! Where are you? Watching him on the body board

more waves...

playing in the water

sea lion?? NO...just Madi waiting for the waves to come and push her up the beach!!

rip currents taking her back out....lol

ridin all the way in....

you're going to be waiting awhile Madi!!

Finding shells after we all had to get out. At least theres always something to do at the beach. And getting the sand off her was.....um...."fun"

Because you can.....

seems to be the emphasis of our lives right now. We recently found out that my father-in-law has esophageal cancer. Makes me remember once again just how precious life is. Madi doesn't have too many people that have been consistant in her life, but Nana and Papa are 2 such people. So far we've just told her that Papa is very sick. And Papa being sick is just one new obstacle that is facing us right now.
We have had to stop all communication between Madison and her mother. It just triggered too many nightmares, bedwetting, regression, etc.. Her mother is pregnant again. My brother in law and his fiancee have plans to adopt the baby. I know life can be unfair, and I am not taking away from the fact that this is a new life we're talking about, but it angers me to know that someday...Dennis and I will have to find a way to explain to Madison that she has another sibling. And I thought it was going to be tough enough to have to explain one day why Morgan doesn't live with us. This will be even tougher.
Madison has begun counseling again here in Virginia Beach. Her counselor recommends that for the time being, the new baby should be her "cousin" since it is my brother-in-law that will be adopting it. Madi is also scheduled to have a full neurological work-up. The counselor is very perplexed as to "Madi's condition." Madison shows signs of many things.....ADHD, PTSD, and then possibly just the fact that she had a rough childhood with neglect, making her behave the way she does now. It will be nice to finally get the answers we need to help her adjust to life the way a 5 year should!
Madison is also starting to get adjusted to Daddy's new work schedule. We had him all to ourselves in Key West...but now he has already had to leave for 3 weeks to go for Navy deployment work-ups...next he'll be gone almost the entire month of Oct and then leave again mid Nov for a few weeks. We haven't even begun to tell her what is coming up next year, when he leaves on the boat for a 6 month deployment.
She is now finishing her first week of kindergarten and seems to be loving it. And so far she's gotten happy faces everyday. Pre-k was a bit more of a challenge for us, because it was just about every other day she was getting a sad face. We're crossing our fingers that the happy faces continue!!
So far, (knock on wood) Dennis and I are strong, healthy people. I know we'll be able to face the challenges we have in front of us, and will be able to find the words needed to help make Madison understand her life when the time comes. Right now I just keep reminding myself not to get caught up in the monotony of each day, and to make each day new and exciting for Madi.
And why do I do that? Because I can!

We're here!! And Nana's here!!

After many miles of driving we finally made it here! It was a bit hectic when the movers arrived, but Boudreaux sure seemed to feel much better when he was able to lay on the couch...I know we heard him say "Ahhh....home!!" Although my pictures are out of order...Nana was able to come too....with the intentions of being able to play with Madi while we unpacked and put the house together. It was a blessing she was here, when at 1:00am I awake to excruciating ear pain. I've had ear infections before, but nothing that has left me in tears. So after an all night trip to the ER, and finding out I had a double ear infection, I can only thank "Nana" for being here to take care of us. I was pretty much "down and out" for a couple of days. The unpacking would have to wait.

Although it looks like the lifeguards are throwing Dennis out .....they were just blowing the whistles for everyone to get out at the waterpark. We had only been there a little over an hour when a storm blew in, forcing us out. Of course, I still had an ear infection, so I only got to be there to take pictures!!

Waving to get Madi to come down the slide.

The BIGGEST slide at the park and Madi begs, begs, begs to go down it. Here she is almost at the chute.

Good view of the slide. The water shoots you out at the end...pretty awesome slide. She said she had fun.....but told Daddy she didn't want to go down it again!! And Dennis said her eyes were as big as silver dollars as she was coming down the slide.




Not sure if Dennis was trying to get water out of his ears, or if Madison's "outside voice" was getting to him....lol

Wheeeeeeeeeeeeee

First pool we bought in our GIGANTIC (ha-ha)backyard. The pool turned green so fast that when we went to empty it to clean it, it smelled up the backyard so much and the plastic from the pool smelled so bad, we had to throw it away.

Movin and groovin with Nana!!

Awwww......